About an hour ago, a precious woman from our church stopped by our house to drop off a home-cooked meal for us to enjoy for dinner. Beef and corn casserole and all the fixings (think Frito pie…perfect for this dreary day we’re having). Along with the casserole, she delivered a spinach salad. Jello and brownies. And an extra dinner salad for us to use later this week.
She messaged me on Facebook about two weeks ago asking if she could do this for my family.
The “old me” (a/k/a me before we turned our lives upside down last summer) would have said,
“Oh, that’s so sweet! But I’m sure you’ve got other things to do. I really appreciate the offer, but that’s so not necessary!”
Yes, that’s what the “old me” would have said. (She was ridiculous.)
But I’ve come to understand something these last seven months about people who offer us their help. They do so because (get this) THEY WANT TO HELP.
And guess what? We don’t have to be knee deep in a crisis to accept their offer!
So instead of thanking her for the gesture and then turning her down (which is a byproduct of the fact that, by nature, I’m a “doer” and a control freak), I eagerly said,
“Yes! We would love that! When can you come?”
And we scheduled it for this evening.
But what neither of us knew when we made this date was that today, I would have a child home sick from school and would not be feeling well myself. And we didn’t know that my niece and nephew would be spending the evening with us because my sister and her husband are moving into a new house today. Yes, what I thought would be a typical Tuesday has, instead, been a day full of unexpected twists and turns.
The meal would have been a blessing either way. But it’s extra sweet today because I’m exhausted, one of my children doesn’t feel well, and I have extra mouths to feed this evening!
And so I ask you…
Do you struggle to accept help from others? If so, why? consider saying “yes” the next time an offer of help comes your way. Whether you’re in desperate need of it or not. Whether you think you deserve it or not. Why not see it as an opportunity to experience a tangible expression of God’s grace in your life?
On the other hand, how might you bless someone else with a kind gesture in the coming days? Don’t underestimate the power of small acts of kindness. To you they may seem small and insignificant, but to someone else, they may be HUGE!